I am sorry to hear about your financial difficulties. Unfortunately I cannot advise you because you live in America and the law is completely different from that in the UK.
I did find this link on the internet which may give you some information, http://www.wikihow.com/File-Bankruptcy- ... ted-States
but I suggest you post on an american forum which I'm sure will be able to help you more than I can.
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