- Wed Jan 21, 2009 2:28 pm
have recently posted similar topic myself (as has Indy !!) - i reckon they must get a lot of this at this time of year !! - but the general opinion seems to be - be honest with the OR, tell them about the bonus ...... & advise why you'd want to keep it if you like - then pray you get a nice one who looks on you kindly !!!!!
im of the opinion that if they take it, yes it will be pretty gutting (i also worked my a**e off for mine !!
) but its still better than being in the position we WERE in before BR !!
at the end of the day - just think - if you DONT tell OR, the penalty could be a lot worse than losing the money now !!!
good luck with the wedding either way !!