Divorce or Relationship Breakdown
Relationship breakdowns are often closely associated with financial problems. Statistics show that debts can often arise or increase because of relationships coming to an end. Last year Britain saw 157,000 couples divorcing which may have contributed to the level of UK debt increasing by 10.2% from the previous year.
The following can be reasons why relationship breakdowns have a direct effect on debt.
Cost of divorce proceedings
The average cost of a divorce is £13,000; the cost of course depends on the level of complexity involved. This is a very real reason why debts may occur during divorce; very few people have £13,000 in the bank to pay legal fees etc. People getting divorced usually want it sorted quickly and so understandably turn to credit to fund the divorce. This initial debt may increase because of the changes that arise once divorced.
Sudden drop in income
Divorce usually leads to a change in living arrangements. Many become financially independent and find they have to find accommodation alone. When making the transaction from living jointly to living alone, bills can be surprisingly high, very rarely would food bills and utility bills be 50% of the joint amount. Depending on the individual circumstances, many may need to use credit cards, loans or overdrafts to pay for rental deposits, new furniture, vehicles and general living costs. Money saving tips and income maximisation can also help to minimise the affect of the divorce on the household income.
Treating the children
Whenever children are involved during relationship breakdowns it can be very stressful and upsetting for all. Parents may want to treat their children to minimise the stress caused by the relationship breakdown and all too often this involves spending large sums of money, for expensive toys, holidays or days out. When these treats are brought using credit facilities, it can lead to the level of debt increasing further.
Overspending to boost esteem
Any relationship breakdown either a marriage or a short-term relationship, can affect spending habits. Spending on luxuries can increase in an attempt to boost self-esteem.
Change in lifestyle
Anyone who has gone from being part of a couple to a singleton will experience a lifestyle change, which could lead to increased spending, such as increased socialising. Going out with friends is a great way to help get over a break up but it can unfortunately have an effect on the bank balance.
If existing debts in sole name full payments will be down to that individual
Debt can sometimes be taken out in one name but people may actually consider it joint because repayments are made together. During a relationship breakdown the person whose name is attached to the debt will be solely liable for the repayments. This may cause the liable person to slip into more debt, as they can't afford the contractual payments alone. For more information see joint and several liability.
"Debt can even be a cause"
A recent BBC news article published claimed that 'Debt does not cause break-ups' the survey showed that 80% of the people questioned would forgive a partner who confessed to building up large debts and would help them to sort out their finances. However many relationships do end because of the stress involved with repaying large debts or the secrecy of one hiding the amount of debt.
The way to prevent this scenario is to face the debt problem and contact Payplan to receive free confidential advice.



